The letter

Work is so slow!

Well it has been 3 days since I gave Kristen "the letter"... and nothing not a word! I dont know... she came home the other day and started cleaning the kitchen. So maybe she got the hint... I dont know... she is driving me crazy not saying anything!

Well Bill this is the letter:


Kristen,

Our living situation has to change. I know that we are both at fault for it getting this bad. I love you so much and this is such a great opportunity to spend time together. We will never get this chance again. After this we will be going our separate ways and I just want this to change so we can make the most of it.
I don’t think you should have to wait to come home till I am asleep, and I don’t want to come home to empty house and stress all the time. I have been giving this a lot of thought which is stressing me out. I can only handle so much, I can’t be stressing over you and Bill at the same time, that is just too much for me deal with. Therapy and pills can only do so much.
So we need to formulate a plan, a plan for the bills, and for the cleaning. I think if we do that then we would know what is expected of us.
I understand that you don’t make a whole lot of money, but that’s where money managing and cutting back on thing comes in. As far as bills go we will both have to get our own separate money orders and I will no longer be putting it all on my card. Rent needs to be ready and dropped off by at least the 5th. Now for utilities we can still do the money order thing but we have to mail it in which means once we get the bills we have to get the money orders and mail them out right away. I will no longer be putting them on my card.
In regards to the cleaning in the apartment, all I am asking is that you clean up after yourself. It shouldn’t be a big deal if you clean, it should be a normal thing. If you want to divide up the chores and have a set chore list I am game for that.
This is just what I was thinking but I would love to just sit down and discus what you think we should do. I love you and let me know when you want to sit down and talk.

Samantha.


So we will see what happens!

Hooray camping this weekend!